How do you find unique holiday gifts for picky people on your list?
Got someone in your life who you love but is a nightmare to shop for? Maybe they already have everything, or maybe they’re super … particular. Either way, this gift guide is here to help you find the perfect present, even for the toughest crowd.
Thoughtful and unique gifts
Upgrade their everyday essentials
Think about what they use every day and consider upgrading them to a more luxe version. For example, my friends knew how much I LOVED my crockpot, so much so I broke it. They pooled together and gifted me an Instant Pot — something I’d never buy for myself, and now can’t live without! And I always send them photos of the new, fun recipes I try with it, and feel so thought-of that someone got me something I didn’t know I needed.
Handmade gifts
If you’re crafty (and have the time) consider making (or customizing) a handmade gift. Uncommon Goods has a lot of quirky and unique ideas — like this Create Your Own Reel Viewer.
Personalize it
Whether you make it yourself or order it online, adding a personal touch can add that piece of you to the gift. My mom once gifted me a Paint Your Pet By Number Framed Portrait Kit and I had the best time painting my baby chihuahua. Add a monogram, engraving, or custom design. Even really good wrapping paper shows that you put a special amount of effort into their present.
Practical and useful gifts
Theme it up
When I’m stuck on what to get someone, I start with something small (a cute collectible piece or an item they’ve mentioned wanting). Then I find a couple of related items (in theme and ideally also color scheme), and bam — you have a thoughtful, personalized gift basket! Consider an adorable cookbook, space-saving pots and pans with a detachable handle, and an oven mitt with sass.
Solve a problem
Is there something in their life that could be made easier or more enjoyable? Maybe they had an especially tough year and could use extra care. (I can’t survive a winter or breakup without my COMFY). Or maybe they got a new job that keeps them working late (de-puffing eye stones anyone?) A gift that answers to what era they’re in feels like you’re really cheering them on through life’s current weather.
Self-care wares
You simply can’t go wrong with the latest self-care items — especially if your homegirl is in peri or meno. Consider this iced migraine relief cap, which is also great for de-stressing and de-puffing, or hers Effortless Glow Oil, hydrating facial oil made of 93% natural ingredients. You can also create a gift bag and add NNABI supplements (our very own Amy Cuevas Schroeder gave the NNABI Peri Essential 5 a score of 4.5 out of 5 GALs in her honest review) to help with everything from stress, mood swings, sleeplessness, brain fog, low libido, hot flashes, joint pain, and more.
Experience over things
Do something different
Skip the stuff and plan an experience they’ll never forget. It doesn’t have to be pricey — sometimes figuring out the logistics and putting thought into an adventure is special and sweet. Look at sites like Groupon for anything from a cooking class to a hot air balloon ride. Or walk around your neighborhood for inspiration to pre-plan an activity you can do together.
Personalized experiences
Make a list of their hobbies or interests and see if you can theme an outing for them. If they love art, get them tickets to a museum exhibit. If they’re foodies, book a reservation at a top-rated restaurant.
Package it up
If you’re hoping to give them something to unwrap, consider a handmade element or put a photo of you and them in a (thrifted) frame and a card detailing the excursion. A handwritten card or a heartfelt note will make anything feel extra special.
Charitable donations
Donate in their name
In especially turbulent times, consider making a donation in their name to a charity they support. This is a meaningful way to honor their values and make a difference in the world. Some ideas include:
- Feed America: Every dollar you give can help provide at least 10 meals to families facing hunger.
- Planned Parenthood: Help to protect and expand access to abortion and other reproductive care.
- Toys for Tots: Through the gift of a new toy or book, deliver joy to America’s disadvantaged children.
- The Trevor Project: Help to make sure that LGBTQ+ young people who need support know they are not alone.
Remember, it’s the thought that counts
No matter what you choose, the most important thing is to show your loved one that you care. A thoughtful gift, even if it’s small, will let them know that you’re thinking of them. Happy holidays!
