
My morning routine is all about hydration, hydration, hydration. And SPF.
Wake-up time: 6 a.m. if I’m lucky (if my Shih Tzu-Chihuahua doesn’t wake me.)
City: Phoenix, where it’s 110 degrees in July
First thought: I try to think of things I’m grateful for, but if I’m being honest, I tend to think, “What’s my schedule today? When’s my first meeting? Am I taking my daughter to school/camp, etc.?”
Between my three glasses of water, half-caff coffee, morning meds, and showering, I didn’t realize how many products I use in the a.m. until I wrote them down. I won’t bore you with an exhaustive list — just some of my must-haves to rise and shine.


Oikos Triple Zero Vanilla Nonfat Greek Yogurt with no added sugar
NNABI Peri Essential 5
I try not to eat until about 8:30 a.m. (so that I’ve fasted for 12 hours), which is hard sometimes but helps to manage my weight. A few minutes after eating a smoothie with Oikos, berries, kale, and carrots, I take two NNABI Peri Essential 5. In the morning, I do not take the CBD version. I tried that and it made me very sleepy, which is why it’s great for perimenopausal women who need help sleeping all night. The non-CBD version gives me more energy during the day.
Gobs of conditioner
Conditioning my hair is a whole thing. My hair’s gotten curlier as I’ve gotten older and I now touch up the grays at my crown, so ya know, dry hair. I try not to shampoo every day but shampooing with a color-safe shampoo does make my hair bouncier. Shampoo or not, conditioner is everything — I use two heaping handfuls.

OUAI Leave In Conditioner & Heat Protectant Spray
After conditioning my hair in the shower, I apply Ouai Leave In Conditioner. It smells so good and it adds just the right amount of moisture to tame my curls, which I let air-dry. Because I live in a dry climate (and maybe because I’m in perimenopause), if I don’t use a double dose of conditioner, my hair is usually flat and fly-away.

Clinique Take the Day Off
When it comes to removing waterproof mascara that’s still there from the day before, the greasier the product, the better.
No. 7 Menopause Skincare Protect & Hydrate Day Cream with SPF 30
No. 7 had me at “co-created with menopausal women.” I slather this all over my face; the formula is a lovely creamy consistency that doesn’t cake up when you apply makeup.

Supergoop! Glow Screen Sunrise SPF 40
Supergoop makes me feel good — it’s a pretty sunscreen with a bit of color and shimmer.


Systane Complete dry eye relief eye drops
The wiser, more experienced I get, the dryer my eyeballs become. Enter: Systane. Pairs well with my bifocal contacts.
Maybelline Great Lash Waterproof Mascara for my lower lashes
I’ve been using this drugstore cult fave for years. I use Great Lash for my lower lashes because the wand bristles are petite, making it easier to slightly coat my lashes instead of going super thick like I do with my upper lashes with a separate, thicker mascara. Because it’s waterproof, I’m less likely to get raccoon eye.
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